Originally Posted by
Lei Lei 
Many times a person messes up when they open their mouth. For example, women pick men. Men don't pick women. A man can approach a woman. But she already knew a majority of the time if she wanted him or not. It has nothing really to do with what he says. You're right. Grown adults, can make grown decisions. If walls could talk the stories they would tell. But they can't so why should we.
Sweetie, first of all, I did say for example, women pick men. Men don't pick women. Your right at times, actually many of times people, men and women are not mentally and physically equipped for the fame. That's part of the point that I am trying to make. Whether a person is eqipped or not to play, at least they have been well informed, and so the choice is now theirs. For me, this is about, being well informed and aware of the circumstances and making choice.
I choose to get with you. Or not.
I choose to fuck you. Or not.
I choose to be second to the main girl. Or not.
I choose to deal with the baby mama drama. Or not.
I choose to continue to fall for you knowing you do not want to go to the next level. Or not.
I choose to continue to fall for you knowing you are with someone else. Or not.
You guys kill me with that "the woman already knows if she wants him or not". Well what in the world makes you think that the man doesnt "Already know" if he wants her too?
There is no doubt that a man can know or does know what he wants. I only can write from my perspective and invite people such as yourself to elaborate a one sided opinion into a dialogue between two or more persons.
And to answer your question, yes, I have made the first move in asking a guy out. And yes, of course he already knew that he wanted to hit that, that's why I made his job easier for him.
