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Originally Posted by Lei Lei
Originally Posted by Lei Lei I choose to get with you. Or not.
I choose to fuck you. Or not.
I choose to be second to the main girl. Or not.
I choose to deal with the baby mama drama. Or not.
I choose to continue to fall for you knowing you do not want to go to the next level. Or not.
I choose to continue to fall for you knowing you are with someone else. Or not.
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My point exactly but you guys say it as if us men dont make these choices too.I've been with females who wanted to make it more than a level 3 affair and i chose not to.
Whats the difference? You talking as if all the choices are yours and the dude is just following like a dummy.
Sometime i may let a woman make certain decisions in the relationship but deep down i already knew what direction i wanted to go with it anyway. So her expressing it in words and making the decision is nothing to me (at leat she thinks she is)... as long as im getting what I wanted from the go i'm fine with it.
No matter how you spin it IT GOES BOTH WAYS so stop lying to yourselves thinking that you're dominating something because you are not. End of story.