Keys to directing the delinquent child: hw8
--apply tough love in correcting
--take time to speak to him
--always give him time to speak to you
--pay attention to what he says
--analyze secretly his choice of words
--pay attention to what he does
--keep your tone at a well managed level
--don't speak at him, speak with him
--verbal abuse draws him away, reprimand with reverse psychology
--always assure him that you love him hence your severity
--seek advice from expert sources
--question him on purpose of his behavior
WOULD YOU CARE TO ADD A FEW OR TO COMMENT ON THESE!
I want to stress what are VERY IMPORTANT:
Pay close attention to what he does, what he says,
Whatever choice he makes, have him say the reason.
Have him/her become your friend if possible.
Ask for expect advice, and go back to the old school way to show kids love, don't let the american way influence you.
Also, you have to consider all existant approaches; like the win-win approach, the win-love approach, etc...
If needed, I can directly help you, that is my field.
Hope you appreciate it.
I meant the win-lose approach, not win-love.