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Law 33

Discover Each Man's Thumbscrew

Plan the Assault

Find It. You must always have a "Strategic Plan of Action". It has to make sense. It has to be worth it. Success achievement must be worth it. The Risk must be worth it. Because anything can happen, but as long as it was worth it, it will be easier for you to deal with it. We are human, it is in our nature to have "resistance". We rarely like change because it brings us out of our comfort zone and we really do not like, not even from friends for someone to impede on our ways. Like Burger King says, Have it Your Way." Yeah, that works for them, but we know good and god wel,l we do not like to give it to a person the way they want it unless that is how we want to give it to them. Within that, also know that putting up a fight can tire you out, whether mentally, emotionally, or physically.

Study your mark. Everyone has a "mental" weakness. Find it. Some people hide it well. Others don't. You may not immediately push up on it. Just know where that button is so that when you need it, it's there at your disposal.

When planning your assault keep the following in mind:

"Pay Attention to Gestures and Unconscious Signals." As Sigmund Freud remarked, "No mortal can keep a secret. If his lips are silent, he chatters with his fingertips; betrayal oozes out of him at every pore."" One must learn where and how to look for the truth, a majority of the time, the answer is right in front of you. You must train yourself to listen because through constant conversation the answers you seek will be revealed. A "sympathetic ear"will cut down on much of your work. Look as if your interested in the next man, his thoughts, ideas, and issues. Appear to open up and share. When you find the soft spot, indirectly nibble along the edges until you get to the core, the heart of it.

"Find the Helpless Child". A person who's childhood built up "compensatory defenses" will always have a certain emotional need that they need fulfilled. Find it, touch on it, the person will often react to it now you rectify it, support it, take care of it, supply it or indulge in it.

"Look for Contrasts". Overt individuals do the opposite of what they are. Example, people that often thump are punks. They pound on their chests to scare people away. Physically, mentally or emotionally.

"Find the Weak Link". Usually that in power has someone behind them. Find that person, influence them and you influence the person you really wanted. People resist opinion of an outsider, plant your seed in the head of one on the inside

"Fill the Void". Insecurity and Unhappiness. Find it, Secure it. They are yours. People with insecurities often need social validation. They like those who are unhappy find it heard to hide, so you should be able to spot them. Fill the emotional void, you should have them.

"Feed off of their Uncontrollable Emotions" People can get caught up during lust, greed, vanity, or hated if you can learn to control them during this period, you can control them most times.

It's not easy to enter the inner circle. Sometimes those in position do not have someone that they can trust. No one to advise them. Sometimes people are put into positions that are hard for them. But who would want to give up a power position because of lack of skill or experience. Do like the white man, surround yourself around a productive and experienced team and you will appear productive and experienced. Sometimes at the bottom you can climb up the weak power chain. The weak power chain are those in position and power that are to weak to do the job on their own. Isolate their weakness, take care of it from all angles and then move to the next higher, weaker party because the person in control is not usually the one in control.

Look out for those who need social validation. When looking for the weak, look for those that are dissatisfied, unhappy, or insecure, it will give you plenty means to satisfy them and turn them to loyal followers even when it will appear that you are in their shadows.

Mistress, Mistress's, Mistress have a power, a certain swag over a person in power. "Remember: Always look for passions and obsessions that cannot be controlled. The stronger the passion, the more vulnerable the person." Majority of the strong looking people are putting on fronts. For example, men that feel the need to conquer women, are actually your biggest prime targets. "Their greed, their lust, their intense fear" makes them your prime candidates because their emotions that can not hide nor control. And your primary function is to control what they can not.

Sometimes one needs to have patience. Instead of control or taking over, one can lead a person the direction you want them to go. You have to be able to understand what makes a person move. What keeps the persons interests. Sometimes you will need to make a person feel important. You will need to secure, confirm and at times even raise them to another status level. When you are in a situation like this, you must persuade them indirectly. You must make the person feel better about themselves, their taste, their intelligence and recognize and live to the fullest their social status.

In a final note, playing on one's weakness is dangerous. "You may stir up an action you cannot control". When playing the normal game of power it is easy to think three four five steps ahead. But when playing the emotional game of power some individuals are too emotional making it difficult for you to have such foresight. Their emotions can "upset your plans". Example, if you push a timid person into a bold act, they may go to far. Know your limits. Know your victims.

Keep in mind that you are after

"Power" not "Control"