Welcome aboard everybody !
I believe that all of you guys and gals are doing just fine .You can learn about Haitian culture in English, Spanish or whatever language of the country fate has chosen you to be born in . It may be a bit awkward at times to hang around Haitians if they can only speak French or Creole while living in a foreign country .
However, you are not really missing out on anything if you were not born and raised there .You have no remembrance of specific details that would tie you to a particular way of life during childhood and adolescence .
The English language can teach a lot about Haitian culture . It has a vast litterature available to those who are interested in knowing the minute details of Haitian culture . You need not speak creole to learn and understand about Haitian culture .
The only problem that I see is that you may need a clear understanding of what is relevant haitian culture on the one hand and political propaganda - good or bad - on the other hand . .This phenomenon , you will find it in any language that pretends to "know " the values of Haitian culture .That includes French and Creole .
Welcome aboard . And , do not hesitate to ask the questions that are important to you . We'd like you to share your thoughts with us .