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LAW 3

CONCEAL YOUR INTENTIONS

Keep people off balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. If they have no clue what you are up to, they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them far enough down the wrong path, envelop them in enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intentions, it will be too late.

NEVER LET ANYONE KNOW YOUR TRUE INTENTIONS. GIVE THEM A FALSE SECURITY AND SINCERITY, VAGUE SIGNALS, MISLEADING DESIRES SO THEY CAN NOT TELL WHAT IS TRUE FROM FALSE.

One must plan every step and execute every step with the utmost attention to detail. Detail to the fullest. However, lets step back. In order to plan one must be able to properly assess a situation, problem or event. Assess without feeling or emotion.

Assessments are considered ideas. One must be able to make the assessment based on pure facts. When one basis a situation on fact not feeling or emotion several things occur; i.e. one gets benefit of the doubt when it comes to drive and motivation and one is not blinded and leaves less room for error, mistakes or tracking. Once one has assessed a situation, they must now plan. The plan is what makes the solution to situations, events or problems real. The plan should be what if to death. The plan should be detailed to every possibly of something going wrong. The plan should weight the percentage of negative outcomes vs. positive ones. The plan is the bible to getting something accomplished. If you implement the plan to the tee your plan should run smoothly and your end evaluation should be top marks.

In this day and age, one wants to be able to confide in someone. However, remember the shadow example. Confiding in someone can cost you you. And the one person you can not run from is you. The one demon you can never win against is yours. Taming the beast within is the best one can do. However the beast, is the example of the fox and the snake s, and sometimes externals just will fuck with it and you have no choice but to unleash it. If you must confide in someone, let it be in a friend never in a potential lover. With the friend you might have a chance. Make sure you properly define, and qualified your friend. Qualified friends are safer, if you must, then a potential or even an established lover. Many times a lover will react on emotion and after they have calmed down say, I'm sorry. By then its too late. A friend on the other hand more than likely will react on facts, and weigh whether or not it is worth destroying the friendship.

Potential lovers that you have a hidden agenda for, you must do the following.: make them confused, make them jealous, become desired by others to make your value increase, so that a person feels more satisfied when they snatch you up. You see, the chase is about putting yourself in the position where you are not doing the chasing, they are chasing you. You must become a piece of the woodwork and blend in. Let them think, they carved you out. Jealousy breeds intrigue. And as the sculpture, is carving you out, and you begin to show up at some affairs or places where you know the person will be at "accidently" well, the you as the statue are coming to life. Stay unpredictable because that will cause emotional confusion. You know a person is falling under your spell when people laugh al littler harder, listen a little closer to you and your stories. You also know when a person starts asking questions about you and they start showing up places you be at you a re beginning to have them hooked. You went from placing yourself in their environment to slowly removing yourself from theirs and them seeking yours. Remember when playing a game, end the way your started. If your playing with instruction follow instruction until the end. If someone is teaching you how to play remember law number one, student does not out do the master.

The art of love is seduction. Seduction is also a game. As you get older, your reputation also grows, put people respect you and still will deal with you and come to you for advice and council. Remember people love the feeling of being seduced. They love being detoured and letting go of responsibility, for the shift can be blamed on your hypnotic touch. People love being seduced and lead by seduction, it allows illusion. Everything about seduction is dangerous. One can never anticipate what the next will do. Especially under an emotional state. When playing with ones emotions, make sure you are able to lead the person that way you want them to go, so when it is blame time, they actually did it to themselves. They made the offerings. They made their decisions. They have to deal with the consequence based on what they choose to do. During the seduction never divulge your intentions. You may even want to show interest in another person to ad confusion and excitement. Just make sure you do not get caught up and they do not leave from embarrassment. Remember jealousy and confusion, sometimes is better than boredom of security.

Most people are like open books. They sometimes say what they feel, blurt out their opinions at every opportunity, and constantly reveal their plans and intentions when they crave attention. It takes effort to control ones tongue and monitor what you reveal, because it is only natural to always want to talk about one's feeling s and plans for the future. All that talking, can create enemies for you. Dreams can create enemies.

Honesty is actually a blunt instrument that bloodies more than it cuts. Honesty a majority of the time offends since people usually only want to hear what they want and not the truth. This works also to an others advantage because you don't lie when you are telling someone what they want to hear. You are actually doing a good deed. However, if you are true and do not want things like that to haunt you, ask the person, do you want me to tell you the truth. By shifting and asking, they will get what they asked for. If you yearn for power, lay honesty aside because one must learn to conceal their intentions. It is human instinct to trust appearances. Well to want to trust appearance because sometimes we know better. Our sometimes lie to us. Sometimes we see what we want to see. Example if you think your mate is cheating and you walk up and that mate giving someone you don't know a hug and a kiss and you suspect it is who you overheard your mate saying "God, I miss you so much. I miss having someone to talk to, someone being there for me, I miss the way we use to just hang out." and you bust in. Your eyes, didn't lie. They did see your mate kiss and hug that person. Your ears did hear what you heard. Your mind didn't get the chance to tell you mouth to ask or introduce yourself and find out who this person was because your heart, relying on emotion and not facts. Because the fact was, this was a "real first cousin on the mothers side that your mate grew up with in the same house since the age of 6. Let people see and believe what you want them to believe. It is not a lie if you set up the scene for a person to make an assumption. Once they make assumptions they react and rely on that, never paying attention to anything beyond that. Sometimes you may need to side with the opponent so that they don't notice that you are against them. If they don't notice that you are against him, they will not be looking to consistently counteract.

People hate to see progression. The crab in the bucket theory. There are five crabs. The crabs at the very bottom who do nothing. The crabs on top of them that at least look up and think about maybe one day I plan to think about wanting out. Then the third crab which makes the first attempt to climb the wall to get out. The fourth crab that is half way up the bucket wall and the fifth crab that is at the top rim of the bucket. Depending on your position as a crab, determines who is if anyone is a threat to you. It also determines who is not. Positioning is everything. It helps with plan assessment.

Don't be secretive when plotting. Plot the opposite loudly. People are nosey. Most of them have nothing better to do. Many of them as feel to be put on the map or to get attention is through the information they put out. Always remember, for some that even negative attention is attention just the same. These busy bodies also tend to listen and act like they are not. They plot when they act like they don't care. Close up your true intentions by being secretive. Let your dishonesty be another making assumptions based on what they seen or overheard. Let your honesty come from what you have directly told them.

"Deception is always the best strategy, but the best deceptions require a screen of smoke to distract people's attention from your real purpose. The bland exterior of an unreadable poker face is not as good as hiding ones intentions behind the comfortable and familiar. If you lead a sucker down a familiar path, he won't catch on when you lead him into a trap". Sometimes letting a person think what they want is the best thing to do. Because you don't confirm or deny anything. Many people, especially the nosey usually become their own smoke screen. Loving to hear them selves, in an attempt to make themselves feel important. When you maneuver as if nothing moves you at least long enough that you are not in sight, it is hard for someone to come up with a counter or simple attack. It comes hard for them to assess, plan, implement or evaluate anything.

Remember:

Talk endlessly about your desires and goals-just not your real ones. This will allow you to appear friendly, open and trusting.

Make sure your ideas seem ordinary enough that it is not out of context and stand out like a soar thumb. "The paranoid and wary are often the easiest to deceive. Win their trust in one area and they will be blinded in another. As a deceive, you need to not call any attention to yourself. One can only focus on one thing at a time.

Have and stay consistent with blank facial expressions and creating false impressions. Practice. Practice. Practice. No smiles. No descriptive looks. Do a series of calculated events that deduces the person on your side. And then Plow. Hit them. Hit them hard..

To perfect, just practice.

"Conceal your purpose an hide your progress. Do not disclose the extent of your designs until they cannot be opposed. Win the victory before you declare the war. Imitate those war like people whose designs are not known except by the ravaged country through which they have passed. (Ninon de Lenclos, 1623-1706) (48 Laws)

Just remember, once you have been labeled as a deceptor it becomes more and more harder to deceive. However, respect an honest win. An honest willy pulled over their eyes. They might not laugh in the beginning, but they give credit where its due. The world and people love deception. They love the game. They love the chase. They love to conquer and if done write they love being conquered. It gives them a reason. It forces them to not be complacent. They love when you pull the wolley over their eyes. It keeps people on their feet. Sometimes they get tired, are suspicious so they catch on. Just be careful, if your peeped and you originally were the peeper there is the possibility that you will be flipped over and fucked.

"Don't be held a cheat, even though it is impossible to live today without being one, let your greatest cunning lie covering up hat looks like cunning. Baltasar Gracian, 1601-1658