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Old 12-27-07, 11:23 AM
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15 Minutes of Fame vs. Longevity

LAW 6
COURT ATTENTION AT ALL COST
Part I
Depending on your mission, you may want to bring attention to your name. Because depending on your mission, negative attention can be just a productive and positive attention when it comes to getting the word circulated. You know we as Haitians and many other nationalities love gossip. Many times before we even check the source or the information to see if it is true or not, we've passed the information on.
If you are looking to create a crowd you must think outside the box. Think of something different. Think of a different way of doing things. Think of something that has not been done before or done before the way you plan on doing it.
In your beginning, you may need to attach your name and reputation to quality, or an image that separates you, so that you are not common. You might separate yourself by the way UPU walk, talk, dress, act, function, fight, personality, sex, performance, or dance style. You've got to find a niche for your self. You have to make a person remember you. Or you should give a person a reason to remember you.
Don't be afraid of controversy, especially when you can explain or defend. If you know thee will be, some prepare the basic answers in advance. There are a lot of people in the world. Just like there are a lot of stars in the sky. But for some reason, some stars shine brighter than others. And for some reason, people that excel past mediocre are called stars. Stars are Stars. People are People. Some people are called stars. Separating classes of people.
If you are not in a position to become a star on your own merit, you may have to find a way to piggy back off of a star. IE constructively attack a person in the eye and seize the moment while you have all eyes on you. However, beware, if you let the public realize that this is your ticket to stardom, you will only end up with "15 minutes of fame."
PART II
At times, one must create a mystery about who they are, what they think, or what they are about to do. When you do not show your hand, people will watch, stare, and some even crumble or fold, based on their own thoughts that's based on not even knowing yours. So it is to your advantage not to be "truly"predictable. It's okay to give an air of predictability if that is a part of your plan. But it is not okay to actually be predictable because you will allow one to counter act your plan. Now does creating a mystery, open the doors to you lying. More than likely. And one has to be very careful. Because one you starting lying, you have to remember those lies as you periodically build off of them. Also, when creating those lies you must be careful of not becoming so consumed of them that you yourself do not begin to believe, become consumed and "truly" live those lies. You must always remember the origination, the mission, the point the reason, that you created the mystery or you get lost in it.
Creating a mysterious aura about you can "put others in a kind of inferior position, put others on the defensive, create an intimidating presence or just draw attention" to you.
Some simple ways to create mystery about yourself will be to:
1. "Do something that cannot be easily explained or interpreted."
2. "Choose a simple action, but carry it out in a way that unsettles your opponent."
3. "Create a scene that cannot be read. There will seem to be no method to your
madness, no rhyme or reason, no single explanation."
Always remember for your self to keep under control. "Do not let your air of mystery be transformed into a reputation for deceit." When playing the mystery game make sure you "never offend or challenge the reputation of those above you," you must now when to end the game. If you look "greedy for attention" you will look insecure and that will drive those with power away. Never compete with a King or Queen of a category, always bow in their shadows. Remember to treat "Compete" as being the operative word.
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