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Published by bee- 12-09-06
Interracial Relationships: personal opinion. Suggestions appreciated I am Dominican and I am currently in a relationship with a very smart and nice Hatian man. I love him very much, but he is so enigmatic that I don´t really know that he loves me back... He says he loves me, that i am his manman, his special madame. He also talks about a future together... However, the way protects his personal life make me have second thoughts about him.... I would like some answers from the experts in this forum:
1.- Are all Hatians so enigmatic?
2.- Is a culture issue not to share personal information?
3.- Is a culture custom to say ¨I love you¨ even if you don´t really mean it?
Please guys, help me with this questions.
Suggestions are highly appreciated!!!
LaBee |  Haitiwebs Women | | |  Latest articles | | | | | |   | | |  | | | What the difference with that ??? Seriously i don't see big difference to both of them country. Of course Haiti. We speak creole, french and live in the other side of the island. And Dominican speak spanish... What the deal ??? Sorry i don't call it mixed cultural at all. Tell me about a Cuban and a haitian. Or a Dominican and an Italian. | | | | | Quote: | He says he loves me, that i am his manman |
I would get rid of this guy. | | | | | | Solid Foundation Solid Foundation LaBee Your question is not one of interracial relationships. Because trying to figure out whether a person loves you or not has nothing to do with race, culture or creed. Your question is one regarding trust, mystery, openness and communication. If I am understanding correctly, you love a man that you are not sure if he loves you. You know sometimes actions speak louder than words. Sometimes you have to follow your head and not your heart. Do you feel that he loves you? Does he show you he loves you? How long have you been with him that by now you wouldn't know? He calls you his "Special Madame". Special then indicates that there are others, wouldn't you say, because what is special if you are number one. Being number one speaks for its self, no need to tell you, you are special. that's just like saying "I got this especially for you." That's because I got that, especially for everybody else.  How can you talk about a future, if you do not know his past. Communication is keen in all that you do. Getting to know what you are getting involved with is essential, especially in this day and age. I am no expert, but I do know that there are Haitian men out there who, even if it is a lie you would never know it, because the way that they make you feel, you would be deceived into believing that they love you. I know that there are some Haitian men out there who actually do, and are able to communicate that they love you. Usually, a man that is really ready to build with you, needs you to understand his past, and things that he is going though so that there are no surprises later. So that you can build on something solid. So he's not wasting his time. A majority of the time, when a person finds someone who they feel is even "qualified" they are so ecstatic that they get diarrhea of the mouth about themselves and experiences that they've gone through. Remember If you build a house on a cracked foundation, eventually it will come crumbling down on its own, without being disturbed. However, if you build a house on a solid foundation, even if a person, were to hit it with a wrecking ball, the house will still stand and you will only need to repair the wall that is damaged. I hope this helps. 101 WAYS To Show You Love Somebody (Not including having sex) - Tell the other person that you love them
- Give or get a hug
- Make sure the other person feels important and respected
- Kiss when people are looking
- Kiss when people aren't looking
- Tell the other person that you care
- Hold hands
- Go for a long bike ride
- Give a special present
- Be there when they need a friend
- Spend time together
- Go to see a film
- Walk arm in arm in the woods
- Make a special tape of love songs
- Talk about your feelings
- Share dreams with each other
- Snuggle up together
- Sit together in the park
- Take a walk together
- Go out for a meal
- Have a picnic
- Play a game of frisbee
- Give compliments
- Relax in a jacuzzi
- Go swimming
- Just be close
- Go shopping for food
- Cook a meal together
- Touch each other in a loving way
- Do homework together
- Plan and go on a trip together
- Throw a party together
- Bake a cake
- Go to the library
- Browse in a museum
- Just be there
- Find out what's special for the other person - and do it
- Exercise together
- Gaze at each other
- Wash each other's cars (or bikes !)
- Go fishing
- Talk to each other
- Listen to worries
- Cut each other's toenails
- Choose a special favourite song
- Listen to joys
- Hold one another close
- Catch their eye
- Write one another letters
- Talk on the telephone
- Trust one another
- Give or receive a ring
- Meet each other's family
- Go hiking together
- Make sacrifices for each other
- Send chocolates
- Respect each other
- Go for a moonlight walk
- Hide a love note where the other will find it
- Give each other sexy looks
- Write a poem
- Send flowers
- Eat dinner by candlelight
- Go to a concert
- Watch the sunrise together
- Remember anniversaries
- Give each other pet names
- Go sightseeing
- Rent a video
- Do things for each other without being asked
- Propose marriage
- Whisper something nice into the other's ear
- Be best friends
- Have fun together
- Go out dancing
- Play music together
- Flirt with each other
- Laugh at something funny together
- Be faithful
- Impress each other
- Make a list of things you like about each other
- Read a book and discuss it
- Meet each other's friends
- Go horse riding
- Cook each other's favourite food
- Find out what makes each other happy
- Make presents for each other
- Wash each other's hair
- Watch the sunset
- Go for a bus trip
- Have a request played on the radio
- Send a funny card
- Share your plans for the future
- Play footsie
- Share private jokes
- Think about each other
- Find out what makes the other sad
- Go skating
- Swap rings
- Share an ice-cream
- Have your picture taken together
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Originally Posted by love_jenny What the difference with that ??? Seriously i don't see big difference to both of them country. Of course Haiti. We speak creole, french and live in the other side of the island. And Dominican speak spanish... What the deal ??? Sorry i don't call it mixed cultural at all. Tell me about a Cuban and a haitian. Or a Dominican and an Italian. |
They are NOT the same culture. Look at asia and europe. Same piece of land. DO you feel they are the same culturally?  Come on now | | | | Article Tools | Search this Article | | | | | Display Modes | Linear Mode | Posting Rules | You may not post new articles You may not post comments You may not post attachments You may not edit your posts HTML code is Off Points Per Thread View: 2.00 Points Per Thread: 15.00 Points Per Reply: 5.00 | | | | The time now is 12:09 PM. | |
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